How do you know if who your with is your true love?

There is no such thing as true love. The fact is, you are now married. Love is about commitment. You may still think about your old flame and what what it could have been, but you should put those thoughts aside because you did choose to marry your current husband. It wouldn't be fair to your husband or yourself to ruin a marriage so you can chase after your fantasies. They won't be fulfilled the way you think they might be. You'd always have the guilt of hurting your husband and then wonder what your marriage would have been over time. Marriage is not all about love, in fact, I think it's perfectly normal to lose the lustful thoughts you had in your courtship. It's time to put the fantasies aside and be a good wife to your husband and leave the past in the past.